“老師，你在看哪裡啊？不許想那種奇怪的事哦..” ——『下江小春 泳裝』 "Teacher, where are you looking?"Don't think about such strange things..." ——『Shimoe Koharu』

优秀的教授就是AI先行者 不愧是斯坦福法学院毕业的 这周的大作业不仅要求我们使用AI 而且15%的评分来自如何创造性的使用AI “Think creatively about how to use AI to complete the task and make yourself an asset to your teams and organizations.” 我想，没有一个同学会想到把能lexis/westlaw两大引擎交给@bot吧！

这是我和我老婆晚餐时候的对话， 你认为她说的对吗？ My Wife: You know, I've been reading about this Chinese concept of "face" lately. Me: Really? What brought that on? My Wife: Honestly? Living with a Chinese husband made me curious. Me: Uh oh. And what did you find? My Wife: Well, I used to think face just meant pride or reputation. But now I think it's much more complicated than that. Me: That's already better than most explanations. My Wife: What surprised me is that face isn't really something a person owns by themselves. It's something that exists between people. Me: Go on. My Wife: If I understand it correctly, giving someone face is a way of showing public respect, recognition, and consideration. And when you give someone face, there's an expectation that they'll give you face in return. Me: That's actually pretty accurate. My Wife: So face is reciprocal. It's not just about protecting your own image. It's about maintaining a relationship where both sides acknowledge each other's dignity. Me: Exactly. My Wife: And if one side refuses to give the other face, it's usually not seen as a small social mistake. It can be interpreted as disrespect, and sometimes even as hostility. Me: You're sounding more Chinese every minute. My Wife: Don't worry, I'm still American. I just finally realized that "face" isn't the same thing as self-esteem. It's more like a social obligation to recognize and respect the other person. Me: That's one of the best explanations I've heard from a non-Chinese person. My Wife: What really made it click for me is this: Americans often see respect as something personal. Chinese culture sees respect as something relational. Face is what helps keep those relationships in balance. Me: I couldn't have said it better myself. My Wife: So, to me, face isn't about ego. It's about reciprocity. It's the understanding that respect has to flow both ways. When people stop giving each other face, the relationship starts to break down.