relationships are mostly tit for tat
some get stuck in a bad cycle of refusal
the good news is that it works both ways
so tat back with love and see what happens
'relationships are work' means 'you have to put effort into loving each other intentionally & learning how to love each other and communicating properly' not
'your relationship makes you feel stressed and sad most of the time & the other person disrespects you and treats you bad but you stay anyway'
relationship reminder:
Do not allow anyone to talk down to your wife.
Not relatives. Not parents. Not siblings. Not outsiders.
Your wife is not someone for other people to correct, criticize, or “teach a lesson.”
When someone picks apart your wife in front of you, they are not only disrespecting her.
They are also showing that they do not respect you, your marriage, or the home you are building.