There is a tiny used bookstore near the Navy base in Yokosuka. Mrs. Kuroda has run it for 36 years.
Every summer, American Navy families get transferred. They can't take everything with them. So they sell her their books.
She says Japanese books come back clean.
American books come back with the family still inside.
She has kept everything she ever found in them. Three cookie tins. 1,184 things.
She let me read them.
A grocery list on the back of a church bulletin:
milk
eggs
call Mom
PRAY FOR THE HENDERSONS
ice
A biscuit recipe on a card, tucked in a cookbook. At the bottom, in a different pen: "DO NOT give this to Aunt Patsy."
A two-dollar bill, folded into a tiny square, inside a child's Bible. "For emergencies. Love, Grandma." Mrs. Kuroda has found eleven of these. Not one was ever spent.
A Little League schedule. Every game circled. Next to three of them, in a man's handwriting: "OFF WORK." Next to the playoff game: "Swapped shifts with Rick. Worth it."
Inside the cover of a mystery novel: "Dad, I finished it first. The butler did it. Love you. Jess"
A note on hotel stationery, in a paperback:
"If you found this, I hope your day gets better.
Kayla, age 11, Ohio"
She sells almost everything.
Not this one.
A children's picture book, worn soft. Inside the back cover, someone drew a calendar by hand. 214 little boxes. Each one crossed out in crayon, one X a night. In September the X's are giant and crooked. By March they're small and neat. You can watch a kid learn to write.
Next to the last box, in a man's handwriting:
"Last one, buddy. See you tomorrow."
And under that, in crayon letters so big they run off the page:
"HE CAME HOME"
A Navy family sold it to her in 2011, in a box of forty books marked KIDS. She doesn't think they knew it was in there.
It has sat open on her counter for fifteen years.
Young sailors come in, read it, and go very quiet. Then they buy something they don't need, so they can stand there a little longer.
I asked her what 36 years of American books had taught her.
"Japanese people write in books so they remember what the book said," she told me.
"Americans write in books so somebody remembers them."
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Last week, a woman I had never seen before handed me everything she owned and went to the bathroom.
A coffee shop in Yokosuka, near the Navy base. Half the customers were American.
She stood up. Looked at me for one second. Said four words.
"Can you watch my stuff?"
I said yes. She left.
Then I looked down and understood what I had agreed to.
One laptop. One phone. One purse. Half a caramel something with whipped cream on top. And a sticky note that said CALL MOM.
Her entire life. On a small round table. Assigned to me.
In Japan, nobody asks a stranger this. It is too much to ask of a person. It's like asking him to be your child's godfather.
In Japan, this level of trust takes three years and a lot of drinking.
She did it in four words, on the way to the restroom.
So I watched her stuff.
I did not glance at it. I watched it. I turned my chair to face it. I put down my own coffee. I stopped blinking.
A man reached for the sugar on her table.
I stood up.
He apologized. I apologized. He apologized again. For about ten seconds, two grown men had a small international incident over one packet of sugar.
Her phone lit up. MOM.
I did not answer it. But I sat up straighter. It felt like she was watching.
Then a little boy walked up to the table. Four years old. He looked at the whipped cream. I looked at him.
Neither of us blinked.
He left.
I won.
She was gone for three minutes. I aged like a man teaching his daughter to drive.
Then she came back, sat down, and said:
"Thanks, hon."
That's it. That's the whole ceremony.
She did not check her purse. She did not count anything. She didn't even look at me. She just started typing.
My hands were shaking.
Ten minutes later, I needed the restroom.
I did not ask. I did not have to. She looked up and said, "Go. I got you."
She watched MY stuff.
Ten minutes earlier, we were strangers. Now we had a treaty.
I have since learned this is the law of the land. "Can you watch my stuff?" are the four most powerful words in America. With them, any stranger can be upgraded to family for the length of a bathroom break.
In Japan, a samurai served one lord for his entire life.
In America, you can serve eleven lords in one afternoon. Each contract lasts until they're done peeing.
I went back the next day. Same coffee shop.
A sailor asked me to watch his stuff.
Then the sugar man asked me to watch his stuff. We are close now.
Then an old man asked me to watch his dog. The dog watched me. I respected that.
Then a guy in a ball cap asked me to watch his truck. It was outside. It was running.
I do not have a license for a truck. I watched it anyway. It idled beautifully.
When I walked in, the barista said, "Oh good. He's here."
Business at the restroom is up.
Somewhere in America right now, a stranger is guarding your laptop with his whole heart, and you're just washing your hands.
That's the deal. You don't earn it. You don't sign anything. Somebody looks at you for one second on their way to the bathroom, and decides you're good.
I have been trying to deserve it ever since.
Last night, at a restaurant in Tokyo, my wife got up to go to the bathroom.
She left her phone and her bag on the table.
She did not ask me to watch them.
I have never felt so unappreciated in my life.
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My wife's aunt is a midwife. Last month, after 34 years, she retired.
Her hospital is near the U.S. Navy base in Yokosuka. In 34 years, she delivered 412 American babies.
At her retirement party, she gave a speech. Half of it was about American fathers.
"When I started," she said, "Japanese fathers waited in the hallway. Or at the office.
American fathers came into the room. They only ever leave for one reason."
Some of what she said:
"They pack a bag for themselves. Snacks. Chargers. A speaker. One had a playlist called BABY DAY. The baby did not care for it."
"They coach. 'Breathe, babe. You got this. Big push.' Like it's fourth and goal. The mothers tell them to be quiet. They get quieter. They never stop."
"They cry. The bigger the man, the louder. A Navy chief with a neck as wide as my waist cried so hard, I almost gave HIM the oxygen."
"I write the weight in grams. 3,290. The father does math on his phone, runs into the hallway, and announces it like a final score. 'SEVEN POUNDS, FOUR OUNCES!' Strangers clap. Thirty-four years, I still don't know what an ounce is."
"Every one of them introduces himself. 'Hey, buddy. I'm your dad.' As if the baby might ask for ID."
"They inspect the car seat for 40 minutes. Then they drive home at the speed of a bicycle with the hazard lights on."
Then she stopped smiling.
"And sometime in the first hour, every single one of them walks out to the hallway alone and calls his father.
Big men. Quiet men. Men who told me they hadn't spoken to their fathers in years.
They all call."
"In 2019, a young sailor called. It went to voicemail. He left a long message. 'Dad. It's a boy. He's got your ears. We named him after you.'
The next day, he called again. And the next.
On the fourth day, his wife told me. His father had died eight months before. His mother never cancelled the phone. She still pays for it, so she can hear his voice.
He called that number every day until they took the baby home."
She looked at the room for a long time.
"In 34 years, I learned one thing about American men.
The moment they become fathers, they become sons again."
When she sat down, nobody clapped for a while.
Then, one by one, the Japanese men in the room stood up and walked out to the hallway.
I was the third.
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Every year, my wife's high school does an exchange with the U.S. Navy base in Yokosuka. Her students write letters to sailors. The sailors write back.
Some of this year's letters, spelling fixed:
"Dear Sailor, is it true you can eat breakfast at any time of day? Please answer honestly."
"Dear Sailor, what is the biggest wave you have seen? Bigger than our school?"
"Dear Sailor, my grandfather says American sailors helped his town after the tsunami. He says thank you. I am saying it for him, because his English is not good."
"Dear Sailor, do you miss your dog? I would miss my dog."
Then there was a girl who wrote only three lines.
"You are very far from home.
In Japan, when someone works hard, we say 'otsukaresama.'
Your mother cannot say it to you right now, so I will say it for her."
The sailor who got that letter is 19. From a small town in Ohio. His first time away from home.
He wrote back one page. My wife let me read it.
He said he'd been homesick for four months and hadn't told anybody. He said he read her letter three times, standing in the passageway.
Then he did something nobody expected.
He mailed her letter home to his mother.
Last week, an envelope arrived at my wife's school. Postmarked Ohio. Addressed to the girl.
Inside was a card.
"Thank you for saying it for me.
I've said it to his picture every night since he left.
I'm so glad somebody over there finally said it out loud."
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🇯🇵🇺🇸 You see this? France, Italy, Albania… ALL of EUROPE!
Japanese and U.S. military members VOLUNTEERED to clean up Yokosuka’s Honch entertainment district.
You know what you don’t see? People rioting, looting, and setting things on fire!
Grab a pen, take notes!
Writer: Jamie
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Japan has caught something from America.
I've been keeping a list of the symptoms.
High-fives.
Our section chief, Mr. Hirano, is 58. In 36 years at the company, he had never touched a coworker on purpose. Last summer, an intern from Nebraska held up his hand after a meeting.
Mr. Hirano stared at it for a very long time. Then he hit it.
He has not stopped since. He connects about four times out of ten. The intern told him that in baseball, that gets you into the Hall of Fame.
Our whole floor high-fives now. Last month, it reached the president. He has not fully recovered.
Talking to dogs.
My mother's American neighbor told her that in America, you're allowed to say hello to any dog.
She now knows 31 dogs on her street by name. She knows none of their owners.
They call her "the dog grandma." She considers it a promotion.
"Thanks, have a good one!"
In Japan, you get off the bus in polite silence. Mr. Nomura has driven the same route in Yokosuka for 34 years. Nobody had ever thanked him.
Then a young American sailor got off and said, "Thanks, man! Have a good one!"
He said it every day for two years. A high school girl started copying him. Then her friends. Now half the route says "Thank you!" on the way out.
The sailor went home in 2023. He has no idea.
Yelling at graduations.
Japanese graduations are silent. It's a ceremony, not a ballgame.
Three years ago, at an elementary school near us, an American dad forgot this. When his daughter's name was called, he stood up and yelled, "THAT'S MY GIRL!"
Four hundred people froze.
Then, in the back row, a Japanese grandfather stood up, shaking, and yelled his grandson's name.
The principal didn't know what to do. So he cried.
This year, the program has a new line: "One cheer per family."
And the one that got me.
Waving at the garbage truck.
Mr. Endo has worked the garbage truck in our neighborhood for 22 years. In Japan, nobody looks at the garbage truck. People wait inside until it's gone.
Then a family from Louisiana moved onto our street. Their son, Brody, was four.
Every Tuesday at 8:10, Brody was on the curb in his pajamas, jumping and screaming like a rock star had arrived.
The first week, Mr. Endo didn't know where to look. The third week, he waved back. By summer, he was honking.
Japanese garbage trucks do not honk. His supervisor got a phone call.
It was a grandmother asking if the truck could honk at her house too.
In March, Brody's family moved back home. On his last Tuesday, he was on the curb with a sign his mom helped him write in Japanese: "Thank you, Mr. Garbage."
Mr. Endo stopped the truck. He's not supposed to do that. He got out, took off his glove, and shook a four-year-old's hand like a man.
Brody gave him his toy garbage truck. It's on Mr. Endo's dashboard now.
Fourteen Japanese kids wait on the curb every Tuesday. He honks for every one.
I asked him why it mattered so much.
"For 22 years, I thought my job was something people wanted not to see," he said. "A little boy from Louisiana taught me it was worth waving at."
America, the news says the world is tired of you.
On my street, the world is copying you.
You don't even know you're doing it. You think nobody's watching.
We are. And we're catching it.
You're contagious, America.
There is no known cure.
Please don't look for one.
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When a young American sailor aboard the nuclear cruiser USS California was dying of a bursting appendix far out in the Pacific Ocean, he was hundreds of miles beyond the reach of any U.S. Navy helicopter.
Fire Controlman Third Class David Henderson needed surgery fast. A ruptured appendix in rough ocean swells can kill a young sailor long before a warship can steam back to port.
The U.S. Seventh Fleet called their allies in the Japan Maritime Self-Defense Force. Within minutes, Japan scrambled four aircraft: a P-3C Orion, an HSS-2B helicopter, and two giant four-engine Shin Meiwa US-1A amphibious flying boats.
Standard military transports need a concrete runway. Japan's US-1A flying boat was engineered to land directly on open ocean waves up to ten feet high.
While the American nuclear cruiser held position in the swells, the orange-and-white Japanese seaplane dropped out of the sky, landed directly on the open Pacific, and taxied right up beside the USS California.
Crews transferred Petty Officer Henderson across the waves by boat into the Japanese seaplane. The Japanese pilots gunned all four turboprop engines, lifted off the water, and rushed him to Atsugi and U.S. Naval Hospital Yokosuka in time for surgery.
It was the first open-ocean seaplane transfer in U.S.-Japan history, all for one young American sailor.
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