Calling out content that encourages people to betray their commitments isn’t automatically insecurity. If someone consistently consumes advice that normalizes dishonesty in relationships, it’s reasonable to question the values being promoted not to control the person consuming it. Influence matters. Choices matter. And compatibility matters. You don’t have to police someone’s timeline. Sometimes, you simply pay attention to what they repeatedly endorse.

Called a guy to remove a tree from my yard He charged $750 Asked how many he does per week “Oh God, are you one of those morons who post about how easy it is to make six figures in the trades by assuming I’m fully booked and have zero costs? You know what, I’m actually going to charge you $1,750 for this job or I’ll just let the tree fall into your roof.” Incredible. $1,750 for just a few minutes of work. Imagine if he does just 10 other jobs a week. That’s $70k+ per month. Almost a million a year. I need to get into tree trimming!

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Callers to the Jeremy Vine show, Britain’s biggest current-affairs programme, can occasionally be rude, or hold unpleasant views. But they are unmistakably British—and surprisingly open