Easy to spot a yellow car when you are always thinking of a yellow car.
Easy to spot opportunity when you are always thinking of opportunity.
Easy to spot reasons to be mad when you are always thinking of being mad.
You become what you constantly think about. Watch yourself.
Traveler: What kind of weather are we going to have today?
Shepherd: The kind of weather I like.
Traveler: How do you know it will be the kind of weather you like?
Shepherd: Having found out, sir, I cannot always get what I like, I have learned always to like what I get. So I am quite sure we will have the kind of weather I like.
—Anthony de Mello, S.J. in The Heart of the Enlightened
Your identity isn’t built in big moments. It’s built in the tiny decisions nobody sees.
The alarm you snoozed. The page you read. The conversation you avoided. Every one of them is a vote.
What did you vote for this week?