The great majority of jobs are unpleasant, so you always have this effect.
Most people will tell you to avoid their own job, and will suggest some other job.
But the people who actually have the other job will say the same thing . . .
Every day I see one post saying your only chance for a semi decent life is going to be joining the military
And one post saying absolutely fucking do not join the military it sucks and is absolutely not worth it