Remember This: Someone Who Is Willing to Spend Money on You Truly Values You. No matter what kind of relationship you have with someone, there’s one thing you should understand: In this world, almost everyone has financial pressures. No one ever seems to have enough money. So when someone chooses to spend their money on you, it’s not necessarily because they’re wealthy. And it’s certainly not because they’re foolish. It’s because, in that moment, they believe you’re more important than the money they’re spending. In the adult world, time and money are two of the most direct ways people express love. When someone willingly gives you something they could have kept for themselves, never take that gesture for granted. Time and money are the clearest expressions of love. No exceptions.