i just saw a video ,where a girl planned a surprise anniversary trip for her boyfriend, and she saved for months, booked a small beach resort, decorated the room with their photos and messages , and she wrote him a long letter about how much she loved him and trust in him. She was shaking when she gave it to him because she really put her heart into it. He skimmed the letter, said " Thanks, babe," and spent most of the trip on his phone playing games and texting to his friends... she kept smiling in the video, but later admitted in the comments that she cried alot alone in the bathroom at that night nd honestly??? that’s when I realized.. some men don’t hate romance. They just don’t care enough about you to try for them.