Men, whatever you ignore during dating will not magically disappear after marriage. In fact, marriage usually magnifies it. That bad attitude you keep excusing because she is attractive? It will become more exhausting after marriage. The disrespect you keep laughing off as “that’s just how she is”? One day it will turn into daily arguments and resentment. The poor communication, lack of accountability, uncontrolled spending, constant attention-seeking, or emotional instability you are ignoring right now…marriage will not fix those things. Living together full-time only exposes them more. Too many men see red flags clearly during dating but convince themselves that love, time, or marriage will change her. Then years later they are stressed, drained, and wondering where things went wrong. Brother, the signs were there from the beginning. Never date with your eyes only. Pay attention to character, values, discipline, and how she handles pressure.Because choosing the wrong woman can turn your home into the most stressful place on earth.