Yesterday was Jhene Aikoโs brother birthday and he passed away 12yrs ago. She made a comment that said โ no one knows how triggering it is to post the same old pictures bc there will never be any new onesโ and now im crying bc I felt that wholeheartedly ๐ฅบ๐ and this is what they mean when they say grieving is tricky bc it truly does sneak up on you at any given moment