My 15 year old daughterโs first boyfriend is at our house tonight for dinner and so far heโs complimented my wifeโs cooking, laughed at my jokes, showered my daughter with gifts, is happily wearing the unsightly matching pajama bottoms she bought him AND also making it extremely hard for me to be the stereotypical judgmental daughter dad to him because, gawd damnit, heโs a REALLY good dude.