JOHN(@Tmbenedict):I love my husband so much, but I think I’m getting old in his eyes. I’m in my late 40s, while my husband is in his late 30s. We’ve been together for over 12 years. In the beginning, everything felt like forever. We couldn’t get enough of each other, and I genuinely believed we would grow old together. But lately, I’ve started feeling left behind. He hardly has sex with me anymore. He goes out frequently, and whenever I ask where he’s been, he comes up with excuses before trying to make things right by being extra nice to me.

2026.11.10 17:27

I love my husband so much, but I think I’m getting old in his eyes. I’m in my late 40s, while my husband is in his late 30s. We’ve been together for over 12 years. In the beginning, everything felt like forever. We couldn’t get enough of each other, and I genuinely believed we would grow old together. But lately, I’ve started feeling left behind. He hardly has sex with me anymore. He goes out frequently, and whenever I ask where he’s been, he comes up with excuses before trying to make things right by being extra nice to me.