I'll spare the audience your whiney ahh video.
Publicly, you helped fuel a campaign that smeared a developer with serious allegations, contributing to an environment that drove her from her position.
It's fucking easy to preach civility after the damage is done. It takes actual character to reject mob behavior before reputations are destroyed. You chose the coward path: join the pile-on publicly, then seek absolution privately.
Classic short man behavior.
History won't remember your platitudes about unity. It will remember who stood by principle when it was unpopular and who bent with the prevailing wind.
When people look back on this episode they'll see you as someone who helped create the problem, then wanted credit for calling for peace once the consequences of your loser fork became undeniable ๐คก