Gary Vaynerchuk(@garyvee):I would ask all of you to get much better at judging. In other words, be thoughtful on whose judgment you decide to accept. More importantly, understand the motives. If you have a bunch of buddies and you're young, and you're going out and living, insecurity is such a big part of life. The judgment of the opposite gender, or whoever that you're attracted to, what they think, what your friends think, etc. Understand where the judgment's coming from. Almost all judgment is someone imposing their insecurities on you.

2026.10.25 15:22

I would ask all of you to get much better at judging. In other words, be thoughtful on whose judgment you decide to accept. More importantly, understand the motives. If you have a bunch of buddies and you're young, and you're going out and living, insecurity is such a big part of life. The judgment of the opposite gender, or whoever that you're attracted to, what they think, what your friends think, etc. Understand where the judgment's coming from. Almost all judgment is someone imposing their insecurities on you.

Gary Vaynerchuk@garyvee

2026.10.24 16:27