Baba, talk your mind abeg
But let’s remove the gender scoreboard from it. If the behaviour is wrong, it’s wrong regardless of whether the person involved is a man or a woman.
Empathy shouldn’t be selective, and accountability shouldn’t need a gender filter.
The real question isn’t Who did it? it’s Would we still call it wrong if the roles were reversed?
Baba, talk your mind out abeg.
If the principle changes depending on who is on the receiving end, then we’re not really discussing fairness. we’re just picking favourites.
Same action, same standard, same accountability. No gender discount, no pity premium.
If na them, e go still worse.