My husband has a second calendar I'm not on. Not hidden. Just a small paper one on his desk in the home office. I noticed it one afternoon and assumed it was work. Then I saw the entries. Call Dan. Check on M. Flowers, no reason. I asked him about it. He said it was his relationship calendar. Years ago, he'd realised he was good at loving people and terrible at remembering to show it. Friends got busy. Family got tired. Marriage became routines....the