UNFORTUNATELY, the formula to a healthy marriage is ... 1.Communicating even when you don’t feel like it. 2.Staying loyal even during hard seasons. 3.Apologizing when you are wrong. 4.Controlling your ego during arguments. 5.Continuing to date your spouse after marriage. 6.Learning how to listen instead of always defending yourself. 7.Protecting your marriage from outside opinions. 8.Being patient with each other’s flaws. 9.Solving problems before resentment builds up. 10.Respecting each other even when angry. 11.Spending quality time together without phones. 12.Supporting each other during stressful periods. 13.Keeping intimacy and affection alive. 14.Managing money like a team. 15.Choosing peace over unnecessary drama. 16.Growing together instead of growing apart. 17.Waking up every day and choosing each other again. Strong marriages are built on consistency, maturity, and effort.