ayo ♔(@ayospawned):do you ever randomly remember something your ex did and just sit there like “oh shit… wait. that wasn’t normal. that was actually abuse.” and suddenly all those moments you used to minimize start looking completely different in hindsight. healing is weird because sometimes you don’t realize how badly you were hurt until you’re finally far enough away to name it.

2026.08.08 10:27

do you ever randomly remember something your ex did and just sit there like “oh shit… wait. that wasn’t normal. that was actually abuse.” and suddenly all those moments you used to minimize start looking completely different in hindsight. healing is weird because sometimes you don’t realize how badly you were hurt until you’re finally far enough away to name it.