i caught my husband having sex with another woman in our bedroom, but when i asked him who she was, the woman started laughing and said, “you mean he hasn’t told you yet?” 💔 i was shaking with anger. my husband quickly told her to shut up, but she refused to leave. instead, she picked up her clothes, looked me straight in the eyes, and said: “ask your husband why he has been sending money to a woman every month for the past seven years.” i turned to him. he couldn’t look at me. i asked him who the woman was and why he had been hiding this from me. after several minutes of silence, he finally said: “i didn’t cheat on you because i stopped loving you. i did it because i thought you would never forgive me if you knew the truth.” i told him to stop talking in riddles. then he brought out his phone and showed me a picture of a little girl. the girl looked exactly like our daughter. i asked him who she was. he looked at me with tears in his eyes and said: “she is your daughter’s twin sister. the one you were told died at birth.” i couldn’t breathe. then the woman said something that made me realise my husband wasn’t the only person who had lied to me. “your own mother is the reason we kept her existence a secret.” 😭💔 if you were in my position, would you confront your mother first or throw your husband out of the house?