在这些足球明星中，哈兰德真是特别的存在。 北欧人的身材优势在他身上体现的淋漓尽致，但却又如此敏捷，从头球到脚下技术，仿佛浑身上下都在参与踢球，力量与灵活竟融合得如此自然。 而且他身上有一种很难用语言描述的气质。像一种无需修饰的生命力，简单饱满，一种没有被现代精致化生活磨平的力量。 体育也是观察一个国家的一扇窗。它虽然不能定义一个民族，却会让人看见一个社会如何培养人、如何理解竞争，以及一种文化所欣赏的精神气质。 ps，图三来自网友，像外星人👽来访地球🌍😂

汉语语境中，“惯着”的意思就是纵容，容许对方做出超越限度的行为，导致人际关系失衡，或者是破坏性后果的产生。 每个人都应该处于合理尺度中，不要惯着任何人。失衡的人际关系终将坍塌，那不是你追寻的结局。

🚨🇫🇷🇲🇦 ZINÉDINE ZIDANE: “THIS WAS THE NIGHT FRANCE SHOWED THEIR MATURITY” 🗣️ “In football, especially at the World Cup, there are moments when everything can change in an instant. Mbappé misses the penalty, Morocco gain confidence, the crowd comes alive, and suddenly the game feels very different. Those are the moments that define great teams. I watched France closely after the miss. There was no panic. No frustration. No rush to force the game. They stayed calm, they trusted their football, and they continued doing the right things. That’s a sign of experience. That’s a sign of a team that believes in itself. Morocco deserve enormous respect because they defended with courage and discipline. Bounou was outstanding. The penalty save gave his team hope and for a period you could feel France becoming slightly uncomfortable. But eventually quality and patience began to take over. What I loved about Mbappé tonight was his mentality. Everybody in the stadium knew he had missed a huge opportunity. Everybody was watching his reaction. Some players spend the rest of the game trying to forget the mistake. Mbappé spent the rest of the game trying to correct it. That’s the mentality of champions. Then came the goal. A moment of quality. A moment of belief. A moment that completely changed the emotional balance of the match. After that, you could see Morocco chasing the game and France looked more comfortable. The second goal arrived because France sensed the moment. Great teams know when their opponent is vulnerable, and they strike without mercy. What also impressed me was the collective performance. People will speak about Mbappé, and rightly so, but this victory was built on organisation, discipline and intelligence. Every player understood his role. France didn’t win because they were spectacular for ninety minutes. France won because they remained calm when the game became difficult. That’s what champions do. World Cups are not won only with talent. They are won with character, composure and belief. Tonight France showed all three. And if they continue to show that level of maturity, every remaining team in this tournament should be very worried. Because a France team with confidence is dangerous. But a France team with confidence, experience and Kylian Mbappé in this form? That is a nightmare for anybody left in this World Cup.” #FRAMAR#

人生有很多坑是随着认知的改变而消失的。 每个坑背后都是一个让你纠偏的机会，无人幸免。当你掉到坑里，不要白白受损，不要怨天尤人，不要沉沦不振。 无论物质利益受损还是精神创伤，要充分利用它，去反思自省，去学习里面的功课，去提高自己，改变自己。相信没有白走的路，每一步都要意义。

巴黎圣母院已经对公众开放了。重启仪式上，大主教说：巴黎圣母院永远向全世界免费开放。 这句话让我想起过去在上海生活过一段时间。江边好多风景好的地段，基本都有商业运营。如果你想享受好风景，就得去消费，一顿餐、一个下午茶等，好位置更是要提前预定。 出了国，这种感觉很少有。绝大多数好风景属于全民免费享受，河边、湖边、教堂等，即便博物馆，欧洲的价格也很便宜。处处让人感受到，人人平等，人是风景，风景属于人，人与景和谐共生。

我们作为局外人看，原推主给侄子交美国的私立大学学费，无非是因为自己作为反贼无法回国尽孝，诸事就仰仗两位弟弟了，这个做法也算挺仗义的，按说在弟弟和弟媳那里应该很有面子才对，不知道他们家具体怎么回事，我简单的想他这位弟媳有点不知好歹。 不过这个事儿我们也可以这样马后炮的想：自己家的弟媳妇是什么样的应该心里有数的，或许一开始原推主就应该直接私下去联系侄子。作为留学学费的直接受益人，大爷在侄子这里总也应该有面子吧。＂小温啊，你也住院了，你爸和你叔叔他们都忙，我也在美国回不去，真着急啊！你最近有没有事儿？能不能帮大爷个忙，去医院照顾你爷爷几天？＂这样的话，侄子总不好拒绝吧。 当然，我这纯是局外人想当然。 相比之下，我比原推主幸运太多了。前年我妈病重住院了，不关心政治的我姐虽然对我吃饱了撑的反共不屑一顾，还和我大吵过几次，但是这时候她知道我回不了国，马上自己辞职了，回国照顾我妈大半年，直到我妈去世。在整个过程中直到现在，我姐从来没有对此事说过我一个不字，我作为独子不能出力，她也不要我出钱，还总问我有没有困难，钱够不够花。 说1000到10,000，在这个世界上最值得我们珍惜的，就是知情识趣有情有义的人啊。