A father threw a chair toward a judge after the driver who killed his 2 year old daughter and both her grandparents was sentenced to just 120 hours of community service.
[H/T: insidehistory]
“You know what? Every single problem during my entire life can be traced back to you!”
不知道从什么时候开始,似乎孩子觉得一切的问题都是其父母造成的,一切的过错都是其原生家庭的错。
对于孩子来说,似乎很容易接受这个教导。
我在90年代认识一个朋友
他是湖北人,忘记是孝感还是恩施的,出生农村家庭,父亲完全丧失劳动能力,母亲是半文盲操持家里的一点田地。
据他说,他的大姐学习很好,每天都要求弟弟妹妹们多学习,但是初中毕业后就出嫁了,要求对方条件只有一个,能够资助弟弟妹妹们继续读书
他的二姐初中毕业就考取了师范中专,师范类院校免学费,有补贴,早早毕业赚钱继续供弟弟妹妹读书
他高中毕业以能够进入重点大学的分数去读了武汉河运专科学校,就是为了当时航运类院校免学费,毕业后赚钱较多。
当时他告诉我,弟弟妹妹被上海同济和复旦入取了。
他们从来没有抱怨过自己的家庭,也从来没有轻看自己的父母。
Currently, there are protests in France to fund education, in Spain to fund decent housing for all, and in Germany to oppose military expansion. People in Europe are waking up and realizing their governments serve capital and war, not people. Time for Americans to wake up too.