Your teenager pulling away from you is baked into biology:
- At the end of adolescence brain and hormone changes create a bias for action, and the action points away from primary caregivers
- They always return, like a small child who walks off, looks back to check everything is safe, then keeps going
- Same pattern in other primates, in rodents, in almost every mammalian species
- The kid who hits puberty and wants to stay home with you happens, but it is not typical
Hormones do not just change the body. They bias us to disperse.
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