We NEVER know what goes on behind closed doors. In public, a person you believe is great may be an a-hole to those in their household. So, always look at how the kids turned out in order to fit the pieces of ‘what has gone on behind closed doors’ in a person’s home. A parent may claim, “But, I did everything right!” Then you need to think, “Did you? Did you talk to them like humans and question them? Did you tell them no? Did you discipline them and hold them accountable when they did something wrong? Did you let them make decisions with only guidance, not control? Did you let them play, using their own imagination not yours? Did you have conversations over the dinner table? Did you really lead by example? But most of all, did you introduce them to God?”