i still remember one of the hardest hours of my life
high school basketball practice, absolute living hell
the day before we lost against a team we should have beat, and the next morning, 5am, we watched film of everything we did wrong, it was a hard watch
then, right on the dot at 6am, we headed downstairs to begin physical practice, the whole team moping around in our slides
it's now 6:01am
coach blows his whistle
"PRACTICE STARTS AT 6AM, WHY DO Y'ALL NOT HAVE YOUR SHOES ON?!"
we all scramble to put our shoes on
"LINE UP, BASELINE"
coach puts 60 seconds on the clock and 10 on the scoreboard
"CHAMPIONSHIP RUNS, WE FINISH TODAY WHEN YOU GUYS GET TO ZERO"
for context, a championship run = sprint hell
baseline → free throw line → baseline → half court → baseline → opposite free throw line → baseline → then 3 full-court down-and-backs
all under 60 seconds
now here's the caveat: every successful round subtracts 1 from the scoreboard, every failed round ADDS 1
and to complete a round, EVERYONE on the team has to cross the finish line
you're only as strong as your "weakest" link
we finished the first
then the second
the third was a struggle
coach skiff was pissed
he dropped the clock to 55 seconds
we barely made the fourth (5 seconds is eternity)
at this point, everyone was heaving, hands on knees, drenched in sweat, desperately trying to catch our breath
"LINE UP!!!!"
WHISTLE BLOWS
we sprint
three stragglers
our first miss
+1
"LINE UPPP!!!!"
another miss
+1
people started DIVING across the finish line, legs giving out, bodies hitting the floor
maybe coach just wanted to see effort?
nah
he didn't give a fuck
+1
"OKAY, OKAY, I'LL GIVE YOU GUYS 3 MINUTES, GET IT TOGETHER"
we huddled up
our captains rallied the group, we made a strategy, we encouraged each other, for the stragglers, our plan was to have the fastest people go back and push them across
we were going to get through this together
and for a moment, it worked
we knocked out 3 in a row
down to 5
we got this
then we hit a wall
not just tired, completely cooked
i looked around at my teammates, guys were barely standing, some were running to trash cans, throwing up, others were bent over, trying to find enough air for the next sprint
our bodies had nothing left to give
at least that's what we thought
i stumbled over to coach
"c-c-c..... coach.... i ..i ..... i can't.... brea..the"
he looked me dead in the eyes
"MINH!!! YOU ARE LITERALLY TALKING TO ME, BOY!!!! YOU CAN BREATHE!!!!!"
then he turned to the team
"LISTEN UP, Y'ALL!!! EVERYONE CAN MAKE EXCUSES!!! THEY'RE LIKE ASSHOLES, EVERYONE HAS ONE AND THEY ALL STINK!!!!"
"LINE UPPPP!!!!"
and just like that, we were back on the baseline
sprinting
gasping
fighting for every second
i think we eventually got the scoreboard down to 3
+2, back to 5
then the bell rang
7am
saved by the bell, literally
i'll never forget that hour
to this day, it was one of the hardest mental and physical battles i've ever gone through
and the funny thing is, in the grand scheme of things, it didn't really matter
it was just a high school basketball practice
no championship on the line, no trophy, no one in the stands watching
just a bunch of exhausted teenagers trying to survive an hour together
but looking back, i realize how much that hour shaped me
the pressure, the exhaustion, the frustration, the feeling of having nothing left, yet somehow finding a little more, pushing past that wall
i didn't know it then, but those moments were teaching me something i'd carry for the rest of my life
you don't always get to choose how difficult life gets, but you do get to choose how you respond
and you may not realize it now, but the experiences you're going through today are shaping the person you are and the person you'll become
also do team sports in life please, it's a great life teacher
try your hardest at everything you touch
rest just as intensely when you need to
lean on the people around you
and when life feels like absolute hell, when everything feels impossible, when you think you have nothing left
take a moment
catch your breath
and remember what coach skiff told me that morning
you can breathe
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