I support Peller and Jarvis’ marriage and I’m genuinely happy for them, but Jarvis, please don’t let pregnancy completely transform you. Once you’re past the difficult first trimester, try to put in some effort because it can be harder to snap back after birth.
You married a younger man, so be mindful of how much the appearance gap could become after childbirth. And honestly, why shave your hair completely as a newlywed? Traditionally, it just doesn’t look right.