My friend’s mother-in-law came for omugwo. After staying for only two weeks, she packed her bags and went home, saying they had an August meeting. When she got home, she sent a list of things my friend was expected to buy for her to appreciate the omugwo she had come for. The list included: 1 bag of rice, 5 tubers of yam, 2 wrappers, 1 carton of small soap, 1 small bag of salt, Money in an envelope She sent the list to her daughter and told her to give it to her husband. After going through the list, my friend tore it and threw it in the waste bin. He said the list was too much for him and that the woman had disrespected him by sending the list through his wife. His wife has been begging him to calm down since then.