im going to let sf men in on a crazy secret, and if you follow these instructions exactly, you'll be able to date any girl you want
1. most guys just dont have the balls to talk to women in public
2. if you have the confidence to approach a woman in public, you're disrupting the normal daily interaction, and you have a 30 second window in space and time to connect with this girl who is standing in front of you
3. if you are a base level attractive and some combination of enjoyable to be around, smart, and high status, almost any girl in sf will give you a shot
4. most women in sf are desperately seeking a partner, so we're in a men's market