When I was about 4 years old, I had a daycare teacher flash our whole class. I obviously had no idea she had done anything wrong. So when my mom picked me up and asked how my day was, I casually told her, “My teacher pulled her shirt down and showed us her whole chest.” My mother said, “Oh, ok.” ....I never saw that teacher again.Then when I was older, I had asthma pretty bad. One day at school I had an asthma attack after running around on the playground and had to go to the "mean" school nurse. At some point waiting to get picked up, the nurse told me I shouldn’t have been outside “running around like a wild animal.” Again, I didn’t even realize she had said something offensive to me. Went home. And I can't remember why, but I remember my mom asking me something about the naturally, I told her exactly what she said to me. My mother: “Oh, ok." Years later, I found out my mother to the school and TURNED IT UPSIDE DOWN. Never had a problem from the mean nurse again. Moral of the story... Talk to your kids. Ask them how their day went. Ask what happened. Ask what their teachers said.Ask who they played with. Let them ramble and tell you all the little details because kids will casually tell you something WILD and have absolutely no idea they just told you something you needed to know.