Lukewarm take: we need to stop using mental health/therapy buzzwords in day to day life. Not everyone you dislike is a narcissist. Being sad doesnât mean youâre depressed. Thereâs a resounding difference between being nervous and having anxiety. Youâre not ADHD because you donât like to sit still. Youâre not autistic because youâre quirky. OCD doesnât mean youâre organized. And for the love of all that is holy, not every situation that made you uncomfortable is âtraumaâ.