He was an incredible guy... for someone else. Despite being rather unremarkable.
He was a man with a stable paycheck, a good man, but a predictable one who would live a predictable life, never taking a risk, unable to grasp the concept of individuality.
He was smart, just not in the way other men I’ve dated have been. I’ve dated a lot of neurodivergent men (lawyers/tech founders). None of them ever spoke down to me.
He wasn't boring because he was stable, he was stable because he was terrified of being interesting.