Reality is that there are a lot of people walking around with no sense of direction or purpose they have lost it ,and they don't care about getting it back they are just waiting to die and leave the world.
I rather give my money to a non living thing than give it to a woman who doesn't know how to appreciate and say a simple “ thank you” the next day after. Some people don't realise it goes a long way ,and you expect the person to give it to you again ? Lmao.