I just remembered my secondary school days when so many girls were gushing over one corper Temitope..
It was an all girls school so he would always come to class and start mentioning and warning people that sent him love letters ๐
What was your NYSC experience like?
My ladies, not every man who spends money on you loves you, and not every man who cannot afford expensive things is a bad man.
Learn to separate character from capacity.
My friendโs 8-year relationship ended yesterday because of one night. She left a party after sleeping with someone else and went straight to her boyfriendโs place. He didnโt accuse her. He didnโt ask questions. He just said her body smelled different, that he knew what that smell was, and that he was done.
She keeps saying he was guessing. That he couldnโt have known for sure.
But the detail that bothers her isnโt the smell. Itโs that he never raised his voice. Six years together and he ended it like he was returning a jacket that no longer fit. Calm. Certain. Unbothered.
Some people donโt need proof. Theyโve already felt the shift. They just wait for the moment that makes leaving easy.