Top 5 bars in NYC:
1. The Spaniard — West Village
2. Yesterday’s — Greenwich Village
3. Delta Charlie — Nolita
4. Phebe’s — East Village
5. Mr. Purple — LES
HM’s: Bella Union, Hair of the Dog, Gem Saloon, Good Company, Waiting on a friend, Bar Bonobo
Chad is real, and he’s basically a drug to women.
My buddy is 6’1, jacked, tan, funny, nice, insane game. Basically Terra Chad IRL.
He’s hooked up with 500+ women in NYC. He mostly goes for 4-7s. Why? 8s and 9s require effort. With 4-7s, he barely has to try. He doesn’t spend any money and gets what he wants.
He ghosts them, sends the HR rejection text, moves on… been doing this for many years, as he enjoys it.
Meanwhile they’re left thinking, “I dated a guy like that before. That’s my standard now.”
So the next normal dude is competing with a guy who was never actually competing for her. Now the normie is booking a $500 dinner just to get a chance.
There are MANY such cases.
I have a friend who’s 31 and makes close to $2M a year at a hedge fund in NYC.
He’s completely normal looking. Not ugly, not a Chad. Works out maybe 1-3x a week when he can. His entire life is work.
In the last 6 years he’s been on maybe 3 dates and gone out on 4 Friday nights. No girlfriend. Barely travels. Missed weddings, birthdays, everything.
But he’s 31 with millions in the bank.
He’s having a mid life crisis rn with me and 2 of our other friends from home.
“Was it worth it?”
Would you trade your entire 20s for that?
Women have “rules” for guys they aren’t that attracted to.
3 dates before hooking up. He needs to make $250K. No going home on the first date. Can’t like sports too much… etc
Once they meet a guy they’re actually obsessed with and every rule disappears. They never existed!
If she starts telling you about her “rules” on a date or before you even go out, just drop her.
You’re already cooked.
I’ve never met a successful couple who did not hookup on the first 3 dates
Anything past that is setting yourself up for failure…
Is the 3 date hookup rule legit? (May even be 2 now)