Every woman trains her man to be the guy she wants to cheat on. ​Read that again. ​Baby, you gotta be more softer... Why can't you be more like... Stop being so cold... ​That's not love. ​That's programming. ​She's not trying to improve you. ​She's trying to tame you into the safe predictable version of a man... ​The same kind of man she got bored of before and cheated on. ​ ​If she's dating you for a reason, don't change that reason. ​She was attracted to your edge, your fire, your strength. ​Don't let her dull it. ​ ​The moment you start adjusting your behavior to please her. ​You stop being her desire. ​ ​She's trying to turn you into one of her simp, weak-ass exes. ​Don't fall for that trap. ​You're not supposed to fit her frame. You're supposed to lead it. ​Stay true to your purpose. Be a fucking brand. ​Send this to a brother who needs to hear this.

If she does something you like, give her your attention. ​If she does something you dislike, remove your attention. ​This is how you train a woman, BTW. ​ ​For women, attention is currency. ​The more attention you give her, the more she'll repeat the behavior that earns that reward. ​She doesn't care if it's drama, arguments, or the silent treatment. ​She doesn't care. ​If she does something that causes you to give her more attention, she'll repeat it. ​ ​Reward her good behavior with attention. ​Remove your attention when she misbehaves. ​Over time, she'll transform into the woman you like. ​That's how you mold your woman, BTW. ​ ​Most men don't understand how much women enjoy their attention. ​Your attention is your weapon when it comes to women. ​Use it.