My boyfriend's premature ejaculation treatment left his penis deformed. My boyfriend and I both work at the Hsinchu Science Park; we met through a badminton club tournament. He had won quite a few matches in the park, so it was hard to imagine he suffered from premature ejaculation. My previous two boyfriends had normal sexual stamina and could last over ten minutes, so it was only after sleeping with him that I realized men could finish so quickly. However, my boyfriend has his good points; he engages in plenty of foreplay to ensure I’m satisfied before he enters me. Although the actual intercourse only lasts one or two minutes, we are very compatible in our daily lives, so I didn't mind the premature ejaculation issue too much. A few months later, he proposed, and I accepted—but then, bizarre things started happening.

One of the biggest things i’m learning is that not everything deserves access to my emotions. people can misunderstand me, dislike me, talk about me, walk away from me… and my life can still remain peaceful.