What’s wrong with My aunt, she said, “If a woman posts thirst traps online, she can't complain when men sexualize her” I asked, “So if a man posts shirtless pictures, are women allowed to treat him however they want?” She said, “That's different” I asked, “How?” My uncle jumped in and said, “Women don't look at men the same way” I said, “Then why do we keep using someone's decision to post a picture as permission to disrespect them?” Nobody answered. Maybe posting yourself online means accepting attention, but it doesn't mean surrendering your right to decide what kind of attention you accept.