"Move your head from time to time, it's gathering dust my dear" "this is 2026... you don't need the IQ of 9 to know this. You need more than a stitch in time to save your IQ" "and see your depth of knowledge not thicker than a cell membrane width" Chai, God, I'm sorry...I was angry and pissed. Holy spirit wan finish me this morning... 😭😭... see flogging!!!!... it will not happen again. 🙏🙏🙏🙏

Yes you are right. We can't keep counselling women everyday. "After your period, boil scent leaves and bitter leaves together, sit over the steam, and let it enter your private area. When you’re done, use the scent leaves to wash down there" You are right.

Dear Dr Mary, you have not made a conclusion in your statement. As someone who has some level of obstetric exposure. If you are asked by the AMERICAN or ROYAL BOARD... "Dr Mary, is Pregnancy a death sentence?" what will be your answer?... I can see you don't support MumZee, but that's beside the point... I'm asking you as a MEDICAL DOCTOR. You've made a broad statement here, cleverly without stating Pregnancy is a death sentence... but supporting the claim. You will go ahead to encourage more women to believe that notion. Except you believe Pregnancy is a death sentence. You made a statement "That shii hit a nerve in me…for the pregnant women that was brought in dead due to eclampsia, for the one we lost on the operating table and we all shed hot tears, for the ones that had to deal with post partum complications for the rest of the their lives…for myself and my pregnancy journey; the one that stayed and the one that messed me up so bad and still left…" Second Question: Does this talk about it being a death sentence or being high risk. Third Question: Is Malaria a death sentence. I lost my own younger sister to Malaria. Should I say Malaria is a death sentence? Answer these questions... no insults, just pure discussion.

ladies have always complained about pain for years during vaginal procedures... like IUD placement, papa smear, biopsy, ... this is what gynaecologists use to grasp the cervix... 😭 I have over the years learnt how not to use it or grasp it gently... this is not easy on the women you should ideally feel a pinch, but, always give women pain relief options... or book them to have the procedure done under anesthesia.

endometriosis is a life-long condition. the truth must be told to women. so many women are in pain almost everyday. it takes about 8 years before some women are diagnosed... WATCH. SHARE. REPOST. Endo-survivors, We see you.

Dear Neo, Let's address this issues constructively. You have rightly noticed a climb in many conditions you highlighted in your thread... PCOS, hyperprolectinaemia, Fibroids, hormonal imbalance, endometriosis, adenomyosis and other conditions peculiar to women. You also mentioned "the average goto has an ailment", "most of these are hereditary", "do not marry so you protect your children". Let's address this. The structure of the woman's body is quite different from the man like you know. Below the navel, the structures in the woman predisposes them. Most of the causes of the above named conditions are idiopathic(not known)... none of them is Autosomal or X linked!... There may be genetic relations... but still debatable. You should be talking about conditions like Hemophillia, Von w, thalassemia, Ss... and how future children can be prevented from having this. Yes, you can say for cancers, there could be family history... At that this doesn't make people start avoiding ladies because of this. You are there to enlighten them and help... 1 in 3 black women have fibroids... so are you asking men to marry only women without fibroids? There are many theories for endometriosis, raised prolactin. And there is treatment for that. Those takes of you are wrong and quite insensitive. Some women are currently having stage 4 endometriosis through no fault of theirs and may not be able to have children. The ulcer and other ones you mentioned are treatable. Pregnant women have serious reflux and some have persistent ulcers... how would you have predicted it. I saw your post earlier. It pissed me off... but I felt you are saying this out of concern. It's sad to see the takes of many MEN in your thread... appalling! "The average girl doesn't have an ailment"... many through no fault of theirs. In the past, many of our mothers had these conditions, but medicine had not advanced as it is now... 1 in 3 black women have fibroids... they are still OK. Some women are struggling with a lot of conditions... this isn't the kind of post you should me making. Some are struggling with infertility issues... which is a major issue... It's just like me coming out to say hmm... "The major cause of infertility is now male factor... "the average man is infertile"... Let's be more sensitive to some subject matters. You may worsen the mental state of some girls from just your post... and deprive them off the social healing they well deserve. Thank you for your time, bro🫂