just my $0.02 but there is nothing discussed more on this app than women’s bodies. nothing. they are dissected, ranked, graded, and mocked daily. a man can post a random woman’s selfie and make 10k from it. women’s appearance is the central commodity of the internet. and now men are suddenly saying they "don’t care" about postpartum bodies?? be serious. it’s the most hypocritical thing i’ve read all week.
social media made women’s appearance the main currency. it’s now impossible to scroll without seeing a "perfect" woman being praised and mocked in the same breath. and of course it messes with you.
so yea, women are going to feel weird about their bodies after giving birth. and you can say "there’s nothing wrong with postpartum bodies" all you want. your actions, your jokes, your algorithms say otherwise.