real housewives and sex and the city single handedly taught me that life does not end after your twenties, not even your thirties. you can genuinely reinvent yourself at any age, in any era, and have a great time doing it.
One thing I’ve noticed in the gay scene, especially on Twitter: let a boy be light skin, youthful & have that “fresh out the fountain of youth” look, & suddenly older Black men will move mountains, oceans, highways AND byways just to get to them😭
I’ve seen it happen way too many times over the years for it not to feel like a pattern. Something about it is… icky.
Niggas be so lame they just be hittin u to see if you’ll respond and if they got access. Dont be on shit else but that lmao. Just tryna get a quick ego boost. Ts so dorky
the audacity to sexualize me all day but disappear the moment I need actual emotional presence. that's not intimacy, that's leech/parasite behavior with extra steps.