This tweet sparked the beginnings of a thought in that modernity is an incredibly subjective and selfish era while wearing the mask of objectivity.
Of course all eras were selfish to some extent but it seems that in the past, people were aware of this. Chivalry and codes of warfare were produced amongst European duchies and dukedoms who went to war for political reasons. They pursued selfish aims, knew they were selfish and political, and thus were able to turn it into a bounded game. The bloodiest wars were those about “good and evil” or “right and wrong” but war is never really fought for this reason. Modernity treats all warfare as friends of humanity versus enemies of humanity.
Marriage, among the aristocracy or merchant classes, was settled in terms of titles and dowries. Love was not absent but at least they recognized there was some practical aim in mind. All these considerations are still there, but rather than being honest about them, with others or even with ourselves, we pretend it is a question of love or morality rather than our own interests.
All these practical, selfish motives still exist, yet we refuse to acknowledge them. We can say that the modern man is less integrated with his shadow in Jungian terms. Refusing to acknowledge the shadow does not make it go away, instead it makes your own behavior incomprehensible to yourself. We pursue the same ends as past eras but refuse to acknowledge to ourselves that we have some selfish interest be it politically or tribally or personally. Everything must be dictated and stated in objective terms of absolute morality, but language does not change reality, it merely obscures it.
The problem, of course, is that our own minds and own motivations are a large blindspot for ourselves — we often take our cues for these things from society at large, and it takes a great deal of introspection and interoception to parse truth from fiction. Thus, a world that refuses to acknowledge its shadow, or its own aims, and instead preaches this sort of fake objective dignity or whatever, dooms the overwhelming majority of its inhabitants to misery because they are not seeing reality for what it is, and ruining their own lives for the illusion they’ve been sold and have come to believe.
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