Sometimes you don't actually want an answer.
You want an answer that doesn't force you to change what you've already decided to do.
Sometimes procrastination isn't laziness.
It's the temporary relief your brain gets from avoiding the possibility of failing at something that matters to you.
People can become emotionally attached to uncertainty because certainty forces them to confront what they already know.
Hope can become a form of avoidance.
When someone constantly tests how much you'll tolerate, they're not always unaware.
Sometimes they're subconsciously measuring how much power they have over you.
Some people don't actually want closure.
They want an explanation that protects them from accepting that they were simply not chosen.
Sometimes you don't miss the person.
You miss the emotional state you experienced when they made you feel wanted.
