I told my boyfriend that I enjoyed having sex with him, but I was beginning to feel like I was the only one putting effort into our intimacy. He laughed and told me I was overthinking things. For months, I had been the one initiating sex, suggesting new things to try, buying lingerie and making sure our bedroom life didn’t become boring. One Friday night, I decided to stop initiating and see what would happen. A week passed. Nothing. Two weeks passed. Still nothing. When I finally confronted him, he said he thought I was just tired and wanted some space. I told him that wasn’t the point. I wanted to feel desired too, not like someone who had to beg her own boyfriend for affection. He got defensive and said........... ..