The fan who tells you every month that they will be back when things settle down is not coming back. Update your projections and give that energy to the ones who are showing up now.
Buying content from an adult creator isn't spoiling us or blessing us. It's a transaction. You paid for a product and we delivered it. Spoiling is what happens when you send something extra on top of what you already agreed to pay.
Hope this helps.
Calling adult work 'not a real job' while watching it on the same phone you use for everything else is a level of cognitive dissonance I will never not find funny.