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Masturbation isnโt automatically a problem.
The problem is when you feel like you canโt control it or it starts interfering with your life
I never expected a female coworker to teach me the truth about women. Sarah and I worked side by side for months. One rainy evening, she called me, her voice cracking. Her boyfriend had ignored her for days, left her texts unanswered and made her feel invisible. I listened....
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If youโre trying to reduce masturbation, change your environment before relying entirely on willpower.
Different routine. Less isolation. Fewer triggers
Situationships with avoidants will have you questioning whether you were loved or just conveniently available. They'll pull you close, get emotionally vulnerable, make you feel special, then disappear the moment it starts feeling real. And somehow, you're left wondering what you did wrong
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How do you reply to "I thought we were just having fun" in a situationship?
Never use masturbation as your only way of dealing with stress.
You need more than one coping mechanism. Whatโs your healthiest way to decompress?
Encouraging children to smoke is WRONG!!
Sometimes I donโt even want to masturbate.
Iโm just bored and my brain has terrible suggestions
I knew a guy who kept saying he needed to quit masturbation.
Every Monday, he'd make the same promise. By Wednesday, he'd feel like he'd failed again.
Eventually, he stopped making dramatic promises and started paying attention to what triggered the habit.
He began working out, sleeping earlier, spending less time scrolling alone at night, and keeping himself busy.
A few weeks passed, and something changed.
He realised he wasn't lacking willpower.
He had simply built a routine around boredom, stress, and being alone.
Once he changed the routine, the habit became easier to control.
Sometimes, changing your environment works better than fighting yourself
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Serious question:
Do you think masturbation becomes a problem because of how often someone does it, or because it starts interfering with their work, relationships and daily life? What do you think?
You ever finish masturbating and suddenly become extremely interested in fixing your life? Gym. Money. Career. Relationships. Then 6 hours later youโre back to doing absolutely nothing
Nobody talks about the awkward silence after masturbation.
You just lie there like:โSoโฆ what exactly are we doing with our lives?โ
The confidence after deciding youโre not going to masturbate anymore needs to be studied.
Day 1: โIโve changed.โ
Day 3: fighting for your life because you saw one attractive person on your timeline.
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i donโt have time to hate people who hate weed, cause Iโm too busy smoking with people who love weed๐๐
When she sings for you to feel better but her voice is worse than your problem.
Corporate life is realizing your job requires more emotional regulation than actual skill
some ppl lose access to you and suddenly become experts on โwho you really areโ. Bunch of weirdos!
My best friendโs mom has breast cancer.
Sheโs 52, and before her diagnosis, she had worked at the same elementary school cafeteria in Pennsylvania for 19 years.
Every child knew her.
She knew who hated peas.
Who was allergic to peanuts.
Who was having a bad day.
Then chemotherapy started.
And suddenly, the woman who had fed hundreds of children couldnโt even stand long enough to finish her shift.
The school principal told her to take as much time off as she needed.
She refused.
She said:
โIf I stop coming, the kids are going to think Iโm dying.โ
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So my siblings and I wanna get matching tattoos to represent our last name. Let's say our name is "Manzana" which means apple in Spanish. So we'd get little apple tats. Cute, right?
Apparently, absolutely not. My friend just told me it would be OFFENSIVE because we're not Hispanic. She thinks people would see the apple and think I'm Hispanic when I'm not.
But it's LITERALLY what our family name means!๏ฟผ
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I roll better decisions than I make.
