One funny thing is that this is soo me
When I want to ask you for something, I put in such a way that you can get out of it without feeling uncomfortable about refusing me.
For example when I want to as for money from my guys, I be like "afa guy, I need like 20k for your hand make I use sort something. I know say e dey urgent but I no know if that kind money dey your hand rn".
If you don't have it, you won't feel bad about refusing me and if you don't want to give too I'd understand because no be you born me come this life