I like when men plan dates. Yes, I may suggest the restaurant or the activity but you do the planning, reservations and logistics. I will show up relaxed and h**ny 😉
watching BDSM get demonized in real time is irking me bad. you're not a "dom" you're not kinky you're WEIRD. safety is the main priority when it comes to these dynamics. it doesn't matter that she wanted you to do it, you as the dom need to refuse certain acts if they're not safe