My wife and I had a backyard wedding. My beautiful bride walked towards me to "Something" by The Beatles, flowers in her hair. I was beaming, the luckiest man in the world. She truly knew me and still said 'I do." We will be married 25 years this July.

Almost everything else that people blame for birth declines - social media, app culture, porn, the easy ordering of birth control and abortion pills, less time spent outside - is a sub-category of general wired-in culture.

What many males don't understand is that the online "kink" and "husband fucking" wars actually have little to do with us. The beef is between Prude Women and Down Women. The Prude Women - a numerically smaller group that is very disproportionately asexual, lesbian, or post-abuse (glad to cite!) - want to paint the things that the Down Women genuinely do like as being a form of false consciousness......driven by porn, or some other type of Evil Male Scrotery. This is, of course, nonsense: female tastes like "being taken hard by a strong man" exist across every society that has ever been polled, ever ever. But, it isn't whollly dishonorable nonsense: part of the PW goal is shielding rising PW, YOUNG women, and other people that the Women's Circle used to help out from the fragrant demands of adult heterosexuality. Men should, basically, support and-or-lead the Down Women, while accepting and creating opt-outs for the people this^ second point applies to. Get thee to a nunnery!

Lads: you’re not remotely horny. You’re fixing a shelf, ironing or watching TV. Your girlfriend/wife sighs loudly, says “Can we have sex now?” in a whingy voice and grabs your ass. How do you react?

@diegrueneKatze @HansThorLief @RudeOnion No. She was the co-pilot with dead controls. A 55 year old, white, American IIRC man made an aggressive decision that killed them and their passengers. RIP to all.

@diegrueneKatze @HansThorLief @RudeOnion No. She was the co-pilot with dead controls. A 55 year old, white, American IIRC man made an aggressive decision that killed them and their passengers. RIP to all.

Game is the polite presentation of the expected. A female version, before a market and shopping date, might be: "We're going to have a GREAT day - and then a grrrrreeeaat night (*tongue kiss*)!" You rarely have to say "If."

It's worth noting that, per any marriage manual pre-peak-social-media, there actually is a very easy answer to online questions like: "What do men think THEY exchange for sexual availability?!" In order, totally un-originally, per every Doctor from Paglia and Ruth to Dobson... 1.) Monogamy 2.) Talking, giving attention/meeting vanity, and engaging in social life at 8x our normal baseline 3.) Romance and dating 4.) Protection, and beyond that security - running 3 miles at night, on football knees, so a lover feels secure :). 5.) OUR sex stuff. Do all guys reeeeallly love going down after 4 hours dancing? Sure! The Western model for at least a century has been that both partners contribute equally across a bunch of categories: working is more a "trade" for home management and child-care than for anything intimate. But, I strongly advise both spouses/partners to focus more on "going hard" than on who is 1.2 hours ahead per Dobson (1997).

I miiiight flip the last two, but being right wing seems obviously correct here. Unburdened by leftism or the latest software update to Christianity, I care far more about myself than 10,000 (Haitians). Don't YOU?

It's worth noting that, per any marriage manual pre-peak-social-media, there actually is a very easy answer to online questions like: "What do men think THEY exchange for sexual availability?!" In order, totally un-originally, per every Doctor from Paglia and Ruth to Dobson... 1.) Monogamy 2.) Talking, giving attention/meeting vanity, and engaging in social life at 8x our normal baseline 3.) Romance and dating 4.) Protection, and beyond that security - running 3 miles at night, on football knees, so a lover feels secure :). 5.) OUR sex stuff. Do all guys reeeeallly love going down after 4 hours dancing? Sure! The Western model for at least a century has been that both partners contribute equally across a bunch of categories: working is more a "trade" for home management and child-care than for anything intimate. But, I strongly advise both spouses/partners to focus more on "going hard" than on who is 1.2 hours ahead per Dobson (1997).