For those of you asking me to settle my brother and his wife, here's a little history. In 2019, my brother's wife came visiting on December 23rd with her sick 2yr old child. The child died the next day 24th and she accused me of being responsible for her child's death. When I followed the matter, she claimed a prophetess told her I was responsible but when I moved to arrest the prophetess, the prophetess denied ever saying that. Herself and her mother ensured they contacted everyone around me using my brother's access to my information to get across to people both home and abroad and so it was. I fasted and prayed from December 25th 2019 to January 2nd 2020 (8 Days) and that was when God told me the child was sick before she came but she denied it and my brother covered for her. God told her to confess else she and her baby will die at child birth because she was pregnant with her second child when the incidence happened. Long story short, when she was 8months Pregnant the problem started (excessive bleeding and inducement). She was rushed to UBTH where the doctor told her she'll loose the child. My Brother then informed me and I went to the Hospital and prayed for her. The bleeding stopped and she was discharged before she gave birth one month later and both mother and children survived. She had initially came, apologized and confessed she lied against me when she was 6months pregnant, she said she didn't know what she was doing that I should forgive her and I prayed for her and let everything slide. But after she put to birth, she's still holding her ground about the whole situation. Most people she and her mother condemned me to now knows the truth now but she's still unyielding. She's trying to use it as an excuse to separate my brother from me but he refused telling her she's the cause of the child's death because he had told her earlier that day to take the child to the hospital but she refused she was tired and can't go anywhere. Having read all these, If you were me, what would you do now, seeing her marriage is shaking. What should I do as I'm really in a tight spot. Should I hold my peace or should I force myself to get involved.

Some of you in relationships have never perceived the farts of each other, neither have you perceived the foul stench from your mouth. And you have dated for more than a a year. Cohabit and see things for yourselves. Una still dey form Porsche. If you perceive mess and mouth odor, you go first fear. That's not all ooo. There are more. Have you witnessed a man scratching his balls and perceiving it in your presence? Have you witnessed a woman changing her menstrual pads in your presence before? Have you been able to stay with your man or woman under the same roof and you're not talking to each other for days? Have you taken care of your sick partner for days or weeks and seen them in their most vulnerable state? Una just dey do relationship of "does it bite?" Una never see anything. End.

Some apologies are not evidence of changed character. This is why when someone cheats in a relationship, gets caught, cries and is forgiven, they may still cheat again. Sometimes, the only lesson they learnt was how they got caught, so next time they simply become better at hiding it. This is also why you should never measure remorse only by tears, long messages, gifts, promises or how desperately someone wants you back. If they are really remorseful, it will produce changed behaviour. An apology acknowledges what happened, accountability accepts responsibility for it but transformation is demonstrated by what a person consistently chooses to do differently afterwards. Don't listen only to the apology. Watch the pattern that follows it. Think before you forgive a cheat.

9 MONTHS CAN CHANGE YOUR FINANCIAL STORY!!!! Plantain takes just 9 months to start yielding. On 1 acre, you can harvest about 67 dozens of plantain. One dozen sells for N50,000 -N220,000 Let’s do the math: 67 × N60,000 = N4.02m • 2 acres ≈ N8.04m • 3 acres ≈ N 12.06m No constant watering. No daily farm visits. No heavy chemical spraying. Plant it, monitor smartly, and continue with your other hustle. If you like, give person belle instead of planting plantain.. both take 9 months. The only difference? One gives you debit alerts, the other will give you credit alerts.

Our cleaner refused to greet us at the office yesterday. She had just resumed work after months of maternity leave. Her sixth baby. We asked to carry the baby. She refused, kept the child strapped to her back the whole time she cleaned. As she was leaving, one of us said: "Madam, this attitude you carry come today na wetin?" She stopped and looked at us. "Why won't I get attitude? None of una send me money for this baby. I asked for a ₦100k loan too, but the office didn't approve it." "Madam, we don send money to you four times now. You dey born every year nah." She replied... "Na God dey give me the children. I can't reject God's blessings."

I don't understand how this is even possible. - I witnessed the deaths of Michael Jackson,Maradona, Pelé, and Queen Elizabeth! - I lived through three different popes. - I survived a global pandemic, and watched the internet come to life. - I saw CDs become Spotify, DVDs become Netflix, and landlines become iPhones and now, I'm witnessing the rise of artificial intelligence. AND I’M JUST IN MY EARLY 30s.

HE SAID : I met a lady on facebook who asked me to visit her, so we can spend two weeks together. I told her I don’t have money to book for hotel but only have transport fare, she said no problem that she lives alone. So, I traveled from Lagos to kaduna to meet her. When I arrived, it was 5pm. She picked me up at the motor park to her house, I changed my clothes and took a shower. I then wore my boxers and sat on the couch waiting for next action pretending to be busy on my phone. Few minutes later, I heard a knock on the door. Someone whispered to her “Babe I can’t travel again o, the bus has left before I got to the park. The person that whispered was actually a lady, she started parking her traveling bags inside. When I saw that, I realized the apartment wasn’t hers. My supposed babe now walked up to me and said “sorry, please let’s move out”. She told me it was her friend’s apartment and that she lives with her own boyfriend. She then took me to the motor park that same evening and waved me good bye, I quietly boarded a bus back to Lagos jejely. I finally arrived Ojota the next day, till now I can’t believe I traveled to Kaduna just to baff. Copied

This rich man’s daughter in my street that got married just two weeks ago, is already back to her father’s house. When her father asked her what happened, she explained that her husband insisted that she must change her surname to his own. According to her, she asked him, “Change which surname? Who even know your father?” She went further and told him that, if anything, he should be the one considering changing his surname to hers because that would give him better chances of getting certain opportunities cause her father is obviously wealthy and very influential, while the husband is just an average guy who is doing well for himself and the father is poor. The husband reportedly got angry and told her that if she couldn't carry his surname, then she should consider the marriage over. She didn't argue. She simply packed her bags and returned back to her father's house. Two weeks after the wedding, marriage don end.

My cousin has been married for over 14 years. They have four children, three boys and a girl. Two of the children are already in secondary school. Two years ago, he finally completed his wife’s traditional marriage rites. After that, they both agreed not to have any more children. His reason was simple. He wanted to give the four children the education he never had because of financial struggles. A few months later, his wife told him she was pregnant. He was shocked because they had both agreed they were done having children. She insisted it was a mistake. Around that time, people in the neighborhood kept saying she was having an affair with a younger man who often visited her provision shop. My cousin dismissed it because he believed the man was just a regular customer. One day, some friends jokingly asked him if he really didn’t know about the affair. The rumors had become too loud to ignore. He confronted his wife. She got angry, and he later apologized. But something still didn’t sit right with him. One night, he checked her phone. What he found broke him. The chats confirmed that they were in a relationship. She had already told the man about the pregnancy, and he had been sending her money for her upkeep and even for baby items. That was when everything changed.

God bless you No negative thing was said about Rihanna but a Naija woman dancing online sef,they’ll say “When you marry a retired bed midfielder” “He didn’t marry her a virgin” “She doesn’t look like who will be faithful”.

"Nigerian doctors need to stop misdiagnosing people and making them spend money they don’t actually need to spend just because you’re trying to make more money for the hospital or for yourselves" - Lady complains

My neighbor's wife took a loan from her office and bought a fairly used Corolla from someone in church for ₦7 million. She said she was the only one among her friends without a car. Her husband advised her to wait, but she refused. He took his mechanic to inspect the car before payment. Everything checked out. Two weeks later, the car developed a fault. They fixed it. Another one came up. Then another. The seller insisted he had sold them a sound car. Last week, they sold it for ₦5.2 million. She's been blaming her husband ever since for choosing the car...