autistic people, does anyone else have this thing where you rehearse what you’re going to say before making a phone call… and then if the person answers differently than you expected, your entire brain just goes blank 😭

It's so strange to me how people will ask the most vaguely-worded questions ever and then get mad when you ask "what do you mean?" I was recently trying on clothes, and my mom asked, "Are you gonna wear it in or out?" I figured she meant something like "are you gonna wear it inside or outside" but that didn't make any sense to me since I was trying on a dress shirt that I'd already said I wanted it for interviews and workdays. So I asked, "What do you mean?" She got annoyed and said she didn't know how else to say that, and my dad chimed in and clarified, "Do you want to tuck it in or not?" I feel like I wouldn't have figured that out. As a person who struggles to put their thoughts into words (especially verbally), I feel like it isn't THAT big of an ask to jst reword something. Another time, she asked, "Don't you ever just try to figure something out yourself??" in response to me asking "what do you mean" all the time. It definitely hurt to hear that and made me wonder if I'm the unreasonable one here, but then again, my mom is often on some bullshit so I'm not losing sleep over it. I'd just like to hear what this community thinks.

🍃🥃 WEED vs ALCOHOL: THE BATTLE NOBODY ASKED FOR 😂 Weed: “I just want peace.” 🧘🏾‍♂️ Alcohol: “I just want ONE drink.” 🍺 3 hours later: WHO TOOK MY PHONE?! 😭😂 Weed smokers be eating snacks like they’re preparing for winter. 🍕🍪 Drinkers be texting their ex like they just discovered love. 💀 Then both wake up the next morning saying: “Never again.” …until Friday comes. 😂 Be honest: 🍃 Weed 🥃 Alcohol 🍃🥃 Both 🚫 I’m just here for the comments Which one has the funniest people? 😂👇